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再近一点。。
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"没有你的日子里
我会更加珍惜自己
没有我的岁月里
你要保重你自己"
你可以再近一点
再近一点。。
哈!伍佰!张震岳!MC Hotdog! 我来了!!
[我爱台妹~台妹爱我~] ^O^
"没有你的日子里
我会更加珍惜自己
没有我的岁月里
你要保重你自己"
posted by bRian at 3:55 AM
posted by bRian at 3:55 AM
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I just read your "I'll carry you out every morning until we are old." entry..
i read this story quite a while ago.. when I was still attached.. I remember tearing at the story and wondering if my bf will do the same to me when we get married..
Today, as I read this. the feelings are different.. we've broken up.. he feels that he should concentrate on his career and he's not ready for commitment.. i didnt get that 1 month of chance the girl had... he only told me that he's sorry.. to look on the bright side.. that if there's fate, we will end up together again..
sigh.. i didnt treasure him when i had him.. i let him go.. and now that i regret it, he's moved on with his life.. why do people only learn to treasure things when they lose them??
hi,
wat he said is almost identical to wad my ex had told me too..
to be in a relationship involved taking risk, a gamble which the ante are our feelings. and how much you'd put in doesn't equate to how much you will receive. of course, you might end up "bankrupt" too..
other than this thing call "love", compromise and understanding comes into play as well, because, just as how a song by Patty Smyth puts it, "Sometimes love just ain't enough.."
so what if the love was so intense before? so what if plans for future, supposed to be spent together, had been made to the finest detail?
in the story, because the guy still has a soft spot for the spouse, therefore he gave in to her request of carrying her for 1 month. and in that duration he found out its not that the love between them had died after all and that its all misconception, misintepretation and lack of communication/intimacy. if we were to request the same thing to our ex now, do you think we will be given the chance? think you know the answer..
so why are we still clinging on to it? if the other half had moved on, why do we still stay? it seems as if we are the "weaker" party, but i personally feel its just that perhaps we love them more than they loved us, be it consiously or subconsiously, but only to realised it when its all too late.
tried as we could, when all else failed, there's nothing we can do except to respect their decisions ain't it..
Apologies if my writing doesn't make any sense, my mind went quacky again ^O^
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